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Wednesday night

This is not me, nor my bed.

I am so very, very, sleepy.
Today was busy from Sun up to now as the house finally winds down.

Tomorrow will be much the same, up early for the gym, a long drive to a job meeting (not an interview, but a 1st meeting with a recruiter), a long drive back, then home to make dinner for a friend, then picking up the kids, then softball practice, a track meet, and something I'm forgetting, all while the wife takes off for a long overdue Girl's Weekend.

Today was good though. A meeting with my career coach, a quick review with a printer who's making my business cards, calls to get some head shots done, baseball practice, a wonderful skype chat with a friend (fully dressed, this time), a run to the sporting goods store, the church for youth group, a visit to a post-surgery friend (not post-op as in sex change, just some abdominal maintenance as he called it), a quick lunch with the wife, an argument with the wife, and a couple of errands that all challenged me with chocolate and trail mix (my Kryptonite), but I resisted, and now I'm really really hunger, so popcorn with a tall glass of water on the side to fill me up and get me to bed without a grumbling tummy.

OK, is that enough? I need a nap.

have a Great Thursday!!!

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Rainy day...

OK, it's a quiet day on my end of the street. It's raining outside and will continue to do so for the rest of the day. My two meetings cancelled for the day so I've been productively working on my audits, some documentation, a few reports, and all around being a good citizen.

I'm also a bit subdued over a conversation I had with a friend yesterday. I'm still processing it, surely making a mountain over a mole-hill, or turning "ants into elephants" (a new phrase I heard on the radio last night, and I love it.), but still, the things she shared put me in a bit of a funk. Also, a different friend hasn't said hello for a while so Tame's post hit home today.

Maybe it's just the rain, the early morning arrival at work (the days are getting shorter, I hate that part of the fall), or the feeling of being in a day of hushed tones.... I'm not sure, but this video made me smile.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVTGGH-NRJ4&feature=related

and this one made me say, "OH SHIT! That's cool!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYe6acMozMw&feature=player_embedded

I'm sure the day will pick up. I have a yummy salad for lunch, and what day can stay bad with a yummy salad in it's future?

(and sorry about the links, i tried to imbed them but neither one worked....)

Boooring....

I don't know what's going on. Maybe it's the early onset of manopause. Perhaps soon I'll buy a rocking chair, a subscription too Reader's Digest (Big Print Edition), and a ramp to my front door. OK, a little side note. I threw in the link to RD Large print as a bit of a laugh, but they have a Large Print website and a "regular" print version too. It makes sense, but it made me laugh. Maybe I'm just getting older but I'm starting to find most porn really boring.

It's late tonight, almost midnight here in Houston. I had a really good day. Well, except for a headache that almost made me throw up all morning, it was good. I got some breakfast, a handful of of Asprin, some more breakfast, and by 10:00 I was OK. After that, training went well, the teacher talked 100mph, and if you got distracted at all you had to scramble to catch up. Luckily for me, several wonderfully sexy friends dropped in to tease and torment me while I was trying to learn. Thank you, you had me smiling the whole day.

I tried go get out to a movie but by the time I left the office at 6:30p the movie was only 15 minutes from starting and I just didn't have the umph to get over in time. The movie looks very good, powerful, moving, and touching, but my low energy and on little sleep, I needed something where things get blown up.

Ending up at the hotel I touched base with a friend and we both agreed that we needed to get our workouts in, so I headed to the pool, did some sit-ups at the little hotel gym, seduced, bedded, and release a cute Latina mom, and then jumped in the pool. A few laps later and a quick rest on the lounge chairs ended the evening and I ended up back in the hotel room.

So, what is a guy on his own in a hotel room with cheap and fast Internet access supposed to do? Well, I pulled up YouPorn and poked around for a minute but nothing caught my eye. A relatively new friend (WOW) sent me some of her favorite Tumblr links. Tumblr, I like. I went back to YouPorn. Now I have some friends that like YP, but man it's awful. The camera work is uniformly awful, the clips all appear to be very old, they women are less attractive and it's just icky.

Check out this clip (well don't, but if you have to) This just put me to sleep

The camera man is yards away, trying to build a "peeping tom" conceit, the girl is pretty but the music is just awful and totally unrelated to any of the action. It's just bad.

I know this contributes to my sense of boredom that has been building for a while. If porn is boring then what's left? Service, donating blood, helping orphans, getting a good night's sleep? Right, like that's going to happen. I'm not saying that porn is bad, there are others who will do that, but I'm saying it's boring.

More accurately, I'm bored with it. So maybe I'll take a break a bit. OK, maybe not a total break, but if it's not doing anything for me, why spend time watching it, right?

So what are you holding on to that doesn't do it for you anymore? Do I look for good porn because I think I should be looking for good porn? I'm kind of a sex-blogger, I'm a guy, I'm not getting any sex at home (not much really), isn't porn kind of like a job requirement?

Oh, one good thing, I got to introduce my friend to the lovely Minka Kelley. She is going to be on the new versions of Charlie's Angels, a TV show that will, for sure, SUCK.

9/11/2011

I am not going to try and be more eloquent than the many commentators who have addressed this day with such sincerity and depth. I am just sharing my favorite talk-show host's comments.

I had friends dislocated, scared, and impacted in many ways while I, for the most part, was a sad, but distant observer. My heart goes out to all who suffered more than I, and I pray that we, as a nation, can move forward, still united, still a leader in trying to do right even when we stumble, and stand strong for what is best in all of us, an urge to serve, to support those who struggle, and rally around those left behind when others are called on to give their all.