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TMI - me and my blogs

1. Do you write/manage another blog?
I have a total of 4 blogs.  This one is my favorite and the one that gets all my time.  I have two other blogs that were created to communicate with two very special friends.  Sadly, both of those friends have stopped blogging and so they sit dormant, but I can't pull the trigger on deleting them.  I also have a "real life" blog that never gets updated, because talking about my job isn't nearly as much fun as talking about sex, and my family doesn't need to hear about that.

2. Pick 3 random blogs from your blogroll and tell us why they are on your blog roll.

It's hard to pick truly "randomly" because I have my favorites.  As I look at my blog roll there are 10 that haven't been updated for over 2 months, 2 have just hit their "1 year dead" mark and I miss them all.  I still toss out occasional e-mails to the authors like messages in a bottle to see if they respond.  So far, they have not.

Sex Babble - She is on my blog because she was one of my earliest blogger followers/friends/mentors and I've had the honor of being her friend for a long time.

My quest to be a good girl - I found her through her beautiful self-shots, but stayed because of her compelling story and entertaining writing.

xkcd - I can't remember how I found it, but the comics are funny, smart, and usually make me turn to the dictionary to look something up.

It's very unfair to only pick three, but with some, if I started writing about why they are so special to me, I'd never stop writing.  They are all on my list because they have been my friends, my inspirations, my confidants and counselors.  I cherish them all.

3. Look around your blog, tell us about two pages or links you want us to visit, be sure to provide a link to them in your answer to this question.

Wow, you are making me pick from 1468 posts?  That's tough.
This can't be good  - thoughts on addictions and compulsions
Earning her collar - thoughts with a friend (this isn't working, so let's add...)
Thanks to all the women - a tribute to some friends
My words, her hands - a small little piece 
I wanted you today - Thoughts, more dirty thoughts.
A beautiful Sunny DayJust feeling happy...

These choices are really random but kind of represent a couple of themes that run through my blog, sex, addiction, complaining, badly written erotica, hastily written Flash Fiction, and marriage.

Of course, my favorite post is always the one just written, so go check that one out.


4. Do you have any unique interests that you have never shared before? What are they?

That I've never shared? Hmmmm, I'm interested in early 20th Century Amish folk singing, I'm very interested in Brooklyn Decker, have I mentioned that?  I like bluegrass (mentioned), blue birds, blue balls (if only to avoid them), blue belles, southern belles, southern fried chicken, chicken fingers, fingering, rings (but never in the nose), nose candy, candy canes, sugar cane, brown sugar.... well, this game has already gone on too long.  There's not much I haven't mentioned.

5. What’s your current obsession?

 Survey Monkey, survey questions, getting honest answers out of new employees, helping managers articulate exactly what they mean and not what they think the mean.

Bonus: Has blogging helped or hurt your sex life?

Blogging gives me an outlet to vent, to think, to bitch, moan, complain, and crab. So that helps by making it so I don't have to keep all that hostility bottled up.  But, but venting all of that negativity, I breed more of it, I've even found myself (admit it, you do this too) thinking about how I'm going to write about a problem as it is happening.  Instead of forming a solution with my wife, I' constructing my post and deciding which tumblr pic to put with it.

Blogging has introduced me to so many wonderful people and they have made my life a better place, but, because i tend to fall in love with some of them, i've also been a bit more dissatisfied.  I have more people to compare against.  I'm not a well hung as X, can't last as long as Y, I'm shorter, slower, fatter, poorer than R, D, and T.  I don't have a lover like _____, and my wife doesn't have an ass like ____, and why doesn't she swallow like ______ or ask for it in the butt like _____.

If the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, I have a yard with 1,000 fences.

However, last night as my wife was just on the edge of cumming, she was using a vibrator I bought at the suggestion of a blogger friend and tried a "move" that I saw an a porn clip linked to from another friend's blog.  So, last night my blogging made things much, much better. And she came like a mad woman.  It was wonderful.

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Well Duh.....

This may come as a shock to some, so please be seated as you read this.  It has come to my attention, and forgive me for breaking bad news to many, but today, is, THURSDAY!!!

It is NOT, as implied by my previous post, Friday.  It is not Flash Fiction Thursday, or even HNT any more, it is just Thursday.  Oh, yes, and it's Ground Hog day.

So why does this matter att all?  Well, it matters because I am an idiot.  Well, not maybe an idiot, but I'm losing track.  I love being home during the day, I'm enjoying my time away from work, and I adore the chance to be at home with my kids almost every afternoon, BUT, I am losing track.  Last night, as I was doing homework with the kids, I realized I hadn't written, or posted, my FFF for the week.  In a mad dash I wrote a little blurb, snuck to my laptop, and got it posted.  But, since it wasn't midnight yet, Panser hadn't gotten his post up yet so I had no way to put in my link, AND, knowing that I would be busy all morning, I asked a friend of mine to add my name to the list.  Mission accomplished, everythign set.  Until....

Until she sent me a note asking if she had missed a day or  misunderstood her assignment and she wondered, why was my post already up..  WHAT?  I said, and then it hit me....

So, I'm going to leave FFF up for now, and I will try to get a new post up tomorrow, same picture, new words, and perhaps it's time to buy a calendar.

ok, so that didn't work

I'm sorry for all the confusion over the "assignments" while I was gone.

Thanks for those who commented, at least I know you came by for a visit. I'll come up with something better next time I'm gone. Like silence, perhaps.

:-)

Last Day…of the year!

It’s too cliché to even say, but can you believe another year has gone by? 
What are my highlights?
  • Meeting, making, and keeping some wonderful new on-line friends and lovers
  • Actually meeting two other bloggers in person and sharing some wonderful time with them.
  • Learning, again, just how terrific and frustrating technology can be.
  • Writing 370 posts, and not all of them about porn.
  • Getting up to 139 followers.
  • Getting laid off for the first time (yes, this is a highlight)
  • Learning how to release my inner dominance, much to the delight of some of my friends.
  • A successful, though tedious year at work, getting through 18 audits with “no major findings”
  • Getting to a better place at home with the wife.
  • Not getting fired for...well, if you read my blog, you understand.
  • Being able to share the hopes, joys, fears, ups and downs of all of you...
Let's hope 2012 is better for all of us!

(I'd write more, but everyone is up and about and I've only got a second while I 'check scores' in the office)

xoxox

Have a Wonderful (and safe) New Year's Eve!!!!!

Advizor

So close....

95 hits today.
A new personal record.
Still haven't hit 100 yet, oh well....

:-) 

(Is putting this post up cheating if it pushes me over 100 in the next 23 minutes?)

Prospective Introspection

I have to say THANK YOU to all the wonderful people who responded in comments in private about my "Sunday Sadness" post.  Your sincere concern and statements of faith, and of comfort in non-belief, remind me of how many wonderful friends I have in blog-land.

The expressions of support are heartwarming and appreciated. 

I also want to let you know that I'm not as depressed as I sound, but in admitting that, I have to admit other things.  When I blog I try to get to the heart of the matter.  The questions raised, both on Sunday and in other posts, are real and immediate to me as I'm writing them.  This does not mean, however, that I am in crisis mode as I write.  Because I follow wonderful writers, who write wonderful posts, I get to thinking and I get in to question mode

This is where I start to question things, to say aloud the thoughts my lips cannot say in public, in front of church friends, my spouse, my family, my in-laws, pastor, priest, or therapist.  My blog is a place for me to write uncensored blather at times, and in prospective introspection (PI).  So what does “prospective introspection” mean?
It means I want to think crisis-level thoughts before they become a crisis.  I want to anticipate what my thoughts might be before I need to think them.  We teach this to kids, firefighters, and athletes all the time, we practice reacting to situations before they come up. I like to do this mentally, it keeps me out of trouble, and, when in trouble, I already know what to say.
For our kids, we call it role-play:
Do you want a cigarette? – No, I’m choosing not to smoke because it’s bad for me and I don’t want to smell like death for the rest of my life.
Do you want a beer? – No thanks, I don’t drink, but I’m glad you invited me to your party; does anyone need a ride home?
Wanna fuck? – Ewh, ick, are you kidding Mr. Penicillin man? (I have daughters)
The question of faith came up because another blogger admitted to questioning her own faith, so I start the PI.  I think down the road, I anticipate the conversation with my wife, priest, and family. 
Why don’t you go to church anymore? – It no longer meets my needs and I feel my priorities shifting.
Do you believe in God at all? – I’m not sure.  If God is real, maybe I need to find a new way to relate to him/her/it.
Are you going to raise your kids in the church? – For now, yes, they find joy in their belief and I will not take that away from them, and I still believe that the moral code is well taught and I think it makes them better people.
I try to think this stuff through before the actual crisis comes up.
I don’t want my blogging to be seen as “Crying Wolf” emotionally.  The friendship I get is sincere and I don’t want you to think that I’m writing to get a reaction or sympathy when none is needed at the moment. 
When I write, I will always try to ask honest questions and share the thoughts that are running through my deranged little brain.  I will also try to let you know if I’m really sad, or just if I’m just anticipating the sadness yet to come.

Google RAGE! (Updated)

Google Reader just lost everything.  All of you are gone!  I had 29 subscriptions in my reader list and now they are gone, Every one.  SHIT.  DOUBLE SHIT!  SHIT SHIT SHIT SHIT!!!!

I have no idea what happened, all I did was log in this morning to write a happy little thought and when I clicked over to check on you all, you were GONE!!! WTF GOOGLE???

Some, but not all, are on my blog roll, but I read a lot of people that don't make that list (sorry) and it drives me freaking crazy!!!

So, if you don't hear from me for a while in comments, it's because I've lost your link and will be rebuilding over the next few days.  Aaaaagh.

What a crappy way to start the day.  I hope my run goes better.  Anyone care to join me?  It's only 10K, but it's pretty flat.   And then we are carving pumpkins. 

Damm you blogger.  I wanted a better wake-up call.

That being said, if you want to get me your blog link and you don't see yourself on my blog roll, please send it to me either in comments or in an e-mail.  I miss you already.

OK, I don't know what's going on, but now they are all back.  Aaaaaagh!!!
But I am glad they are back

OK, Confess...

OK, someone has been reading.  If you are a private eye, please let me know...
Remember, this entire blog is entirely fiction.
If you don't believe that,
I'll get you in touch with my attorney.



If it was a wonderful follower just getting caught up on my exciting life, I hope you enjoyed it!


To read or to write?

Monday's are always a challenge for me.  Do I read to get caught up with all of my wonderful blogger friends, or do I write something to do my share of entertaining...  Sundays are a family day with little privacy to write, and Saturday's, well, I'm outside or doing homework, or getting ready for Monday, so it's really a question of Monday morning. 

Today I went to the gym but skipped out early because our boot camp instructor had put together a really boring class, and had us doing all sorts of jumping jacks and hopping so my knee was killing me.  When I got to the locker room, I couldn't get my lock open so I went to the front desk and asked for the bolt cutters.  The idiot  (personal traininer enlisted to run the desk) said they didn't have any, so I found the janitor and did my best mime of cutting off a lock and he found them in the drawer next to the idiot's kneed at the front desk.   And yes, my combination was 17-35-5, not 15-35-5, so there is $6 wasted.

When I got to my office I plugged in, opened my breakfast, and started in on Tumblr and reading 26 new blogger posts.  You people keep me busy.  I found a couple of new tumblrs that were fun but too  hard core to add to my daily list, but i've reblogged a few.  So now it's time to go to work.  One tumblr didn't have any "re-blog" buttons so I just pulled a few pictures and added them here.

But, I did get through all of my blogger posts, and a HUGE shout out to my friend Cande for being so very very brave today.....

Have a great Monday!

Yeah for mirrors!!!

It's just that kind of day.

Isn't she just so amazingly cute?

I love the brunette's smile....

Well, this one is just sexy.

So behind, again

79 unread posts to catch up on
only one decent post of my own in 5 days
a general feeling of malaise
a touch of ennui
a whole lot of busy,
a big heap of tired
and just a pinch of privacy
it feels like I've been a way for a long time. 
But there have been highlights too.
A friend who is wonderful at following instructions
A new friend who admitted to having a "blogger crush" on me (and who doesn't want to hear that)
Another friend who forgave me for a self-pity outburst
and one who is going through a tough time but keeps in touch anyway
and 11 comments on my silly little post about my Win7 upgrade....  Thank you all!
Blogging  ties us to so many wonderful people that it's a strange feeling to be away from it.
Addiction?  I don't want to think of it in that way, more like a far-flung and erotic support group.

So thanks to all my wonderful friends, new, old, naked, or dressed, you are important to me.

So what's been going on?  My trip to Houston was hot but productive.  My friend's daughter's wedding on Friday was sweet (and short, yeah!!) and the reception was good.  I should make a whole post out of what I was thinking, but my cynical side shouldn't come out during the wedding itself when they are young and in love and don't realize that they will hate each other in 5 years.  I'll keep that to myself.

I will say that  "Cindy" was there looking beautiful as ever and to my friend who knows who Cindy is, we made the right choice.

My daughter's bithday was fun as we went horseback riding and out to dinner.  Today is Labor Day in the US, a holiday, and we are having friends over for dinner.  Unfortunately these are nice, but unattractive friends, so we will be focused on talking and not much else.  :-)

Have a wonderful Monday!!!

Tuesday blahs...

After a couple of busy weekends and a still having 82 e-mails that now need to be read and dealt with, I won't be around much today.  I'm tired, distracted, and not feeling "it" right now.  I have 80 posts to read if I want to catch up there too.  Do I have to catch up?  I'm trying....

But I'm also trying to work on the 4 serious projects in my writing notebook; my Christmas story, two fantasy fiction pieces (one about dragons, the other about the war of the animal), and a musical.  I know, it's crazy to thing that I'll get any of them published (I won't), but I must finish my Christmas story by Christmas.

And WTF?  I was walking from the bus to work this morning and saw an empty store getting converted to a Halloween store!  HALLOWEEN?  Already?  I am so screwed.  This year is already over and I haven't even begun.


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