Turn around is fair play

I worry about this.

From Post Secret

Don't you?
Just a little?
Maybe it's not even about someone specific.
I'm never going to run for President.
I trust all of my friends, now. 
My fame casts a net the covers almost an acre...
My circle of in-person friends is about 30
My family adds another 40
My wife's family, 30 more.
So why do I care?
Why does the author of this post card care?
What does it take to turn that trust in to revenge?
And it's not even revenge, it's just mean.
What's the value in destroying another except for base anger.
While most "ex-girlfriend" porn sites are totally fake, the release of those photo's is devestating.
The Paris Hilton tape was an outrage at it's time and she's paid for it for years.
But what of the simple boyfriend/girlfriend/girlfriend/other that just turns bad.
What makes them turn on each other?
And why is it worse for the woman when pics come out?  The insanely unfair reality sucks.
My paranoia flares once in a while.

Pics like this don't help.